TEARS ARE TRUE LOVE…waiting to be known
TEARS ARE TRUE LOVE…waiting to be known is the third book of a trilogy that begins with TEARS ARE TRUTH…waiting to be spoken (endorsed by John gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus) and TEARS ARE TRUST…waiting to be felt (Best Books Award 2008 finalist).
WHY don’t we as a society encourage our body’s natural way to heal like Washington Irving, well known 19th century American author states? “There is sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief…and unspeakable LOVE.” WHY does a rock band call itself TEARS FOR FEARS? Do you know that emotional tears include endorphins, which are natural pain killers? WHY do we accept anger and not the sadness of tears. Do you know that defensive anger is the coverup of our hurt of not being loved well enough? WHY do many men cry when seeing their babies born? HOW can we evolve to accept the wise and valiant vulnerability of tears? WHY do therapy clients say, “I know I am a good person, but I don’t feel it? WHY is it common to hear “Sorry” from a person who begins to cry? Sadly, Fergie, a popular singer recorded a top single in 2007, “Big girls don’t cry.”
“Dianea’s dream is that someday tears will come as easily as laughter by becoming aware of the answers to the above questions.”
“TEARS ARE TRUE LOVE…waiting to be known reveals client’s self-written vulnerable journeys in psychotherapy, as well as Dianea’s intimate journey into healing through deeply connected tears…our body’s natural way to heal…where self-love and compassion for others are found.”
– Harville Hendrix, Phd, author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, featured on Oprah many times and who leads workshops internationally.